no, i don't see how it's okay to "stray" and i can't imagine anyone telling someone it's "okay". cheating just isn't worth it because in a marriage nowadays you stand to lose far too much.
i think it's best to communicate your feelings whether or not your partner wishes to discuss it.
say i was having problems with my husband and he didn't want to talk about it. i'd sit him down, i won't shut up until you sit down and listen. i'd then have him listen to what i have to say and get everything off my chest. there's one choice...well two. either he responds or he doesn't. here's my choice, either he listens and does something about our problem or i walk.
so, bottom line...fix it or walk away. THEN find someone who will actually talk back. it's not hard and the choices are rather simple if your break them down well enough and come up with a good plan.
as far as i'm concerned you're either with me or you're not. what else is there to say? cheating isn't okay. even if your partner is wrong. i hope i don't eat my words one day i'll tell you that. it's easy enough to stand on a soapbox until you actually go through a similar situation right?
i think it's best to communicate your feelings whether or not your partner wishes to discuss it.
say i was having problems with my husband and he didn't want to talk about it. i'd sit him down, i won't shut up until you sit down and listen. i'd then have him listen to what i have to say and get everything off my chest. there's one choice...well two. either he responds or he doesn't. here's my choice, either he listens and does something about our problem or i walk.
so, bottom line...fix it or walk away. THEN find someone who will actually talk back. it's not hard and the choices are rather simple if your break them down well enough and come up with a good plan.
as far as i'm concerned you're either with me or you're not. what else is there to say? cheating isn't okay. even if your partner is wrong. i hope i don't eat my words one day i'll tell you that. it's easy enough to stand on a soapbox until you actually go through a similar situation right?
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